someone that is reliable ,,honest ,, open and excepts me for who i am,,i have kids at home still so as you can imagine they take up a lot of my time ,so i guess you can say i am a package deal,,,i am tired of dating men for months only to be told they have issues about getting involved with someone with kids,,, I want someone that will listen and actually hear what i am saying,,,someone genuine and caring ,,not someone who is ME deep in conversation,,,or hung up on their ex,,,,it gets too much...want to know any more ,,well same again,,just ask me,