I want to meet people who are wanting complete secrecy of meeting - but not going behind partners back - I won't go for that. I want understanding, respect and truth and no one way meetings. I am not into anything too far into the whole sex thing - BDSM (leather, straps, whips,etc) they are a real turn off for me. I want to meet a person/couple who are totally discreet and understanding. Clean free, disease free and willing to understand my limits. I mainly want foreplay for the moment. The way I go is, chat online first, meet in public and then take it from there. I am unable to travel far and have no place to provide for the event.